
The need for external validation is not something new
But social media has raised it to new heights, it’s true
Instead of seeking validation from people you know
You end up seeking validation from strangers, hoping to grow
Your social media presence, get positive comments
Gradually you start posting with the sole intent
Of getting positive feedback, and gradually
Your content gets influenced by flattery
Your unique perspective that had garnered praise
Starts fading away, as you run harder in the rat race
With every new fad and every trend
You continuously try to experiment
Slowly content that is run of the mill
No longer attracts followers, the numbers go downhill
The external validation that had you on a hedonistic high
Is no longer there, your confidence drops from the sky
Then you decide to get out of the groove, take a break
Cure yourself of your addiction to comments real and fake
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You know who you are, you know what you can do
No Instagram follower of yours can validate that for you