Sensible Advice

There was advice always being given to me

Making independent decisions sound was not considered to be

Something I could do- I was naïve and inexperienced

Prone to impulsivity, idealism and emotions intense

I was told many times in a tone of mild condescension

That I should listen to those older and wiser, they had good intentions

They wanted to help me make choices right-

Mostly I ended up acquiescing, I did not put up a fight

Because much of the advice I received was geared

Towards following the safest path, it appeared

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I am squarely middle-aged, and I still get unsolicited advice

From people in positions of power, who consider themselves more wise

While most advice I receive appears sensible at first glance

The aim seems to discourage me from trying to advance

In my career, on the same rung of the ladder stay

Despite knowing better, I often follow such advice anyway..

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Often sensible advice does not align

With the instincts of my heart and mind

My intuition tells me that I should take

More risks, but I hold back because I don’t want to make

My “advisors” angry or say “I told you so”

If things according to my plan fail to go

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Who am I afraid of and why

It is about time that I begin to rely

On my gut instinct and what it tells me to do

No one else I have to be answerable to

If I keep listening to “sensible” advice

Through stagnation I would be paying the price..

Published by Docpoet

A mother, a physician by profession, fiercely passionate about work, family, travel and fashion..

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