
We obsess over the right way to parent
Our children, our overarching intent
Is to ensure that unknowingly we do not expose
Our children to harm, we try to keep a watch close
So that every stimulus to which they get exposure
Is a positive one, we try to create a safe enclosure
Where everything they see, hear or do is conducive
To their development, the least stress to them we try to give
We mull over the right toys to play with, the right books to read
The right music to stimulate them, the right organic food to feed…
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When we parent in a manner over-anxious
When over our children we constantly fuss
That anxiety we inadvertently transmit
To them, on them our insecurities we inflict
We end up raising children who are unfortunately
Not the resilient individuals we want them to be
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We stress over the best for our children but forget
That the best from us that they can get
Is our unconditional love, encouragement and attention-
All the intangible things we give with the purest of intentions
Allow our children to grow into adults with maturity and resilience
Ready to take on challenges in a world fast paced and intense
