
In trying to keep work and home in order
In crossing t’s and dotting i’s, I did not bother
To see how my child felt, until one day
I realized he was upset, and to my dismay
Distant he seemed, not willing to talk to me
I would either interrupt him or be interrupted repeatedly-
Or so he thought, and with a jolt I realized
As painful as it was, I should not have been surprised
In our lives full of work, school, sports activities and more
We go from one commitment to another, never keeping score
Of time spent with distractions none
That seems to happen only on rare occasions
In trying to multitask my way through busy days
In trying to be attentive to tasks and adults in myriad ways
The one person I forget to prioritize in my attention
Is my precious child, to whom I forget to listen
As a wake-up call I realized that I tune him out
Ask him to rush his narrative, interrupt him often, without a doubt
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My son, here is my sincere apology to you,
I am guilty as charged; you must feel listened to
I resolve to listen to what you have to say
Without interruption, even if time is short that day
No matter what I can or cannot provide for you
My ears should always be ready for you..
Every mama’s mea culpa. 😦 When we know better, we do better. Onward.
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