Assimilation in my adopted nation

One of the most prominent aspects of immigration

Is the lifelong process of assimilation..

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In the beginning there is a lot to imbibe

You are motivated because that’s the only way to survive

You start with the language and the laws of the land

Gradually social norms and customs you being to understand

You interact with people at work, and learn the ropes

Of the work culture, some day you would be one of them, you hope

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Your leisure time is still largely spent

In the easy company of fellow immigrants

Where you feel you can let down your guard

Having fun in a different social circle is hard..

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After a few years, daily life in the new country appears

Much more comfortable, you start letting go of your fears

Of committing blunders because you may be unaware

Of certain social mores, you are not on your guard everywhere

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Your children grow up in the adopted nation

You gain deeper understanding of the land as they pursue their education

They correct you when you make mistakes inadvertent

You comprehend social dynamics to an even greater extent

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And yet, sometimes out of the blue, situations arise

Where you are unsure of the right etiquette, you realize

There are aspects of life in your adopted nation

That you do not fully comprehend, therefore your efforts at assimilation

Need to continue, it is a lifelong commitment

That you made when you became an immigrant

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