I am not Available

This is a dilemma as a physician I face

Should I be accessible irrespective of time and place?

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Each time someone has a non-urgent question and I am not on call

Should they have access to my opinion at all?

Should the precious moments with my family be repeatedly sacrificed?

Is that, for being a physician, a fair price?

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The moral aspect of this question

Becomes crucial to making my decision

Someone is suffering and helpful I can be

Therefore I end up sacrificing my time free

To give my professional opinion when I am not required to

It still seems the right thing to do

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The trouble is where to draw the line

A few moments of my time seems fine

But when it turns into an impromptu consultation

Lasting a while, it is a cause for consternation

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The more I acquiesce the more I see

My boundaries being pushed frequently

It is a slippery slope from there

Free advice takes up a lot of my time spare

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Therefore I think boundaries should be clear

And to those boundaries both parties should adhere

I should not make myself available when I don’t need to be

Towards myself and my family I should fulfill my responsibility

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