(Just two days ago I wrote about being vulnerable to explore my creative side. That was the first time I encountered vulnerability in a book on art. Since then I have read it in reference to writing a memoir, heard about it in a song and also heard about it in a radio program about how to make friends… all in the space of 48 hours. The universe is trying to point me in a direction, and this deserves being written about.)

Sometimes I wonder why I keep stumbling across
The same theme repeatedly, my path seems to cross
With a single word or phrase expressing an emotion or a need
In whatever information I consume, in what I hear, watch or read
The last few days I have come across the word “vulnerability”
The world is telling me to let myself vulnerable be
In order to be more creative, listen better and make friends
Is there something I’m missing that the universe intends
For me, a path forward of which I am unaware?
I have been conditioned to display stoicism everywhere
I have learnt so far that being perceived as tough
Helps one wade through waters rough
With greater ease climb the ladder of success
Displaying vulnerability is an impediment to progress…
But maybe it is time to discard the facade of invincibility
Acknowledge my deepest fears, embrace my vulnerability
So that with my soul at a deeper level I connect
Create something more meaningful , listen with respect
When in communication I display my vulnerable side
People open up more, they don’t feel the need to hide
Their own vulnerabilities, thus creating a better bond
This is how new, enduring relationships are formed..
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Four times have I encountered it in the last two days
It’s time to view vulnerability in a new way
https://lighthouse.mq.edu.au/article/july-2020/What-is-the-Baader-Meinhof-Phenomenon
Crazy when this happens, isn’t it?!
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So it’s akin to priming, seems like… 🤔 And is likely manipulated by businesses and other professionals, I’m guessing.
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I didn’t take it that way. I figured things that I thought were coincidental were actually there in the first place, but I hadn’t noticed. Kind of ironic that it should happen…but then maybe I wasn’t paying that close attention.
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Oh I meant just that our attention *can* be manipulated by people/businesses who understand this phenomenon of attention and bias. The researchers were basically priming the study subjects to steer their attention, it seemed to me. 🙂
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Oh, I see! Well, you can see how well they manipulated me–I’m blaming it on my lack of attention. Thanks for the clarification, Catherine.
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I did not know about the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon! Learnt something new! Thanks to both of you
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