
Of all the lessons I should have learnt and did not
The foremost is the ability to say no without a second thought
When saying yes encroaches on my time, resources and liberty
I should be able to say no without feeling guilty
Without coming up with excuses or explanations
That would sound forced and pathetic to anyone
Without feeling selfish or thinking I’ve let someone down
Without thinking of the various ways I could have worked around
My schedule to fit the needs of the person who asked
Without revisiting my decision after refusing the task..
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When I say “No” to something that infringes on my rights
I am being kind to myself by keeping my well-being in sight
I should not have to explain further once I say
No, which is a complete sentence anyway