
To yourself you must not draw attention
You do not know about the intention
Of people, known and unknown, who are looking at you
All attention has negative connotations, regard this as true
There are only two times you should get attention
First, when for academic prowess you get recognition
And second, the day you become a bride
Even then your personality you must hide
Look demure, humble, not too confident
Attention should not exceed a certain extent..
**
Always an obedient child coloring between the lines
I learnt to be wary of people’s hidden designs
Learnt to escape attention except when I was recognized
For academic excellence- that I so prized
Skilled I became at being inconspicuous
Being a silent spectator was etched in my subconscious
I led a rather insipid life in this way
But I avoided controversy and criticism I must say…
**
The corollary to lack of attention became
That despite my ability, forgotten was my name
I did little to distinguish myself from the crowd
Attention went to the voices that were loud
My quiet demeanor and diffidence appeared
As lack of confidence- that was the right assumption, I fear
In trying to thwart attention unwanted
I had lost the ability to state my views undaunted…
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Now I am gradually learning to draw attention appropriate
To myself, I am learning to confidently state
My point of view, which may sometimes be
Dramatically different, placing the spotlight on me
In this competitive world, the right kind of visibility
Is essential to success, now I clearly see…
It’s like damned if you do and damned if you don’t.
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