
It is not a small ask from me
I cannot expect you to trust me blindly..
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We have met when you are in a vulnerable situation
Not enough time has been spent to build a relation
Between you as the patient and me as your physician
But I have to state the unvarnished truth in my position
I know the extent of your illness has not yet
Been able to sink in, you are understandably upset
When I recommend a life-altering treatment option to you
You are skeptical- in your shoes I would be too
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I wish we had time to build stronger bridges, develop more trust
But your illness necessitates acting promptly, therefore I must
Explain everything clearly and create a plan for treatment
Reassure you I am there for you and my only intent
Is to provide for you the best possible care
But building trust takes time, I am aware..
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Though this is our first meeting, I hope I appear
Sincere and empathetic, hope I can allay your fear
I hope over time you would come to trust me
We are in partnership for your disease, you see…

Is it hurtful to the doctor when a patient requests a second opinion?
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I guess it depends- doctors are human too. The problem is sometimes there is an urgency to proceed, so the recommendation has to be worded more strongly. Sometimes seeking a second opinion can delay care.
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