What makes the world go round?

FEARLove does make the world go round

Or so it was said

She disagreed; looking around

It seemed to be something else instead..

Fear, the most primeval emotion

Seemed to lurk in every corner

Shaping ideas, policies and  notions

All human faculties it seemed to conquer.

Fear of the unknown, fear of God

Fear of nature’s destructive power

Unleashed on the world..

Fear of a nuclear war…

Exploited by every powerful human

To coerce the common man

In helpless subjugation

By offering a protection plan.

Fear, that had its seeds sown

In discovery of fire by the cave dweller

That fire has acquired a mind of its own

It burns with an intensity stellar…

Fear is destructive,

And all-pervading

Impacting each moment how we live,

Also it is self-perpetuating.

Even as the optimist may say

Love does make the world go round

It’s actually fear-she would say,

However pessimistic it may sound.

Travel theme: Laughter

It is difficult to come up with entries for this one, especially if you want to avoid images of people, but here are my entries nevertheless-

DSC04207Laughing Figurines: At the Museum of Art and Design, NYC (sorry for the glare from glass even though I turned off the flash)

DSC03699The laughing “Tree of Life” at The Conservatory at Bellagio, Las Vegas, NV

DSC04384                              Humorous quotes

Linked to :http://wheresmybackpack.com/2015/01/09/travel-theme-laughter/

Cee’s Odd Ball Photo Challenge: 2015 Week #2

kitten Outside a store in the artsy town of New Hope, PADSC04214At the Museum of Art and Design, New York City, NYweird artArt at the Di Rosa preserve, Napa Valley, CA

The noise of clutter

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Surrounded by clutter

Too much to sift through

Creating invisible webs

That entangle you..

All the memorabilia

Cherished in the days gone by;

Their significance now lost,

Abandoned, they lie.

Crying out, you moved on..

Now set me free, please do!

And in the process of letting go

You’ll free your spirit too..

Cut ties with your old possessions

And cut your shackles too,

Simplify at every step in your life

Bring forth the energetic you!

Women at the turn of last century


AVioletSeason_Final-667x1024heartRecently I read two books that I found  inspiring. Both these books were randomly picked out by my toddler at the local library and appeared interesting enough to give a try. Incidentally, both were set in the late 1800s-early 1900s. Both had strong, progressive women as protagonists.

The first book, “The Violet Season” is set in upstate New York (near Albany) in 1890s when violet cultivation was the rage. The story is about a smart and industrious woman who realizes she needs to be proactive about what she desires for herself and for her daughter. For someone like me who grew up in India, where very few women in those days were even literate, it was a revelation to read about single women living alone in cities and working. Of course in those days women gave up their jobs once they got married, their occupation thereafter being taking care of the household and family business, much like anywhere else in the world. However, the fact that women could be that liberal in the US over a century ago made me realize how in India, we were almost a century behind them. Even in my mother’s generation, it was hard to imagine a single woman living by herself in an apartment in another city!

The second book is even closer to my heart, as you may judge by the name. This is based on the life of one of the first women physicians in North America, and possibly the first congenital heart disease specialist, Maude Abbot, a Canadian physician. The book describes the struggles of a woman in the latter half of the 19th century in breaking in to a male-dominated field in Canada. There is a passage in the story which describes the disdain of the medical school faculty (obviously male) in allowing female students- they fear that critical patients would not be attended to in time because a female doctor would be more concerned with fixing her bonnet and skirts. The sheer determination and chutzpah of this Canadian woman make her fight insurmountable odds to become a world-renowned congenital heart disease specialist who maintains a large collection of  autopsy specimens of defective hearts. The pathos in the story is how this doctor strives to impress her father who, a physician who had abandoned her and her family after a scandal. She spends a lifetime trying to please her father, who refuses to recognize her when they finally meet.

This second story reads almost like it was set in the current era, except for means of transportation (horse-driven carriages and ships throughout). The doctor lives alone like any spinster would (of course she does not get married, it almost appears that the question never arose in her mind, even though her romantic desires are described).  What was interesting was that the book mentions hundreds of women physicians in Europe, particularly Vienna, in the 1880s. The protagonist also felt that the competence of women was taken for granted in Europe, whereas things were different in North America.

I had to blog about these books as they touched me deeply and reinforced the spirit of women-power.

Have you read books that inspired you (particularly for the women out there)?

The stuff that dreams are made of…

Here’s what my dreams are made of-

1. Exotic places– preferably including mountains, rivers and waterfalls.alaska                                                                  In Alaskalake jenny

                                                    Grand Teton National Park

My love for travel is summed in this one.

2. Colorful, unique outfits- Preferably with western silhouettes crafted in Indian textiles with plenty of detailing (embroidery, bead work, applique, richly woven fabrics etc.)indian textiles1                    https://www.flickr.com/photos/willfrancis/6933630140/spring-2013-trends-indian-inspired-eastern-textiles-fabrics-prints-marchesa-vera-wanghttps://only4fashionistas.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/spring-2013-trends-indian-inspired-eastern-textiles-fabrics-prints-marchesa-vera-wang.jpg

This may not be apparent from my blog, but I absolutely love dressing up. I love flamboyant clothes incorporating the rich textile heritage of India. Of course, I dream of clothes that make me feel beautiful..

3. A book that I can lose myself in- A book with a powerful, moving story, usually with a woman as the protagonist, and usually involving one of the major wars.o-OPEN-BOOK-facebook

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Not a surprise to anyone who knows me…nowadays I love books detailing the immigrant experience.

I initially thought I would come up with a longer list, but these are the three that inhabit my dream world.

What are your dreams made of?

The iconoclast

DSC04114The path was straight and narrow

Instructions loud and clear..

All she had to do was follow

Directions without fear.

Her life, like a roadmap

Already laid out for her

With tried and tested guidelines

To which she had to adhere.

But,

Her spirit was airy and light

Disposed to take a flight;

Falling outside the narrow path,

Thrilling her, but inviting wrath…

Being judged at every step she took,

Disapproved of everywhere she would look

Ignoring the dissenting voices

She stood beside her non-conformist choices.

And then,

Accolades and adulation came her way

Women from distant lands would say

How she had inspired them all

To follow their heart’s true call.

But she was always looking back

At home, for approval from the pack:

Reassurance that the path she chose

Did not mean that the doors were closed…

Never accepted by those close to her

She was treated by them as an outcast

Such was the irony of her life,

The life of an iconoclast.

Weekly Photo Challenge- Shadowed

DSC04189Lincoln Center, New York City

DSC03053Colosseum, Rome, Italy

Mount Washington1View from the top of Mount Washington, New Hampshire

“Je Suis Charlie”- A Dirge

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The pen is mightier than the sword,

Or so they were taught..

Who knew what they penned

Was with peril fraught?

Living in modern times

They had assumed

Freedom of expression

Who knew they were doomed?

They had not a clue

Of men on the prowl

Whose narrow-mindedness

Declared their thought foul..

Extremists they were

In their religion’s name

A heinous act they performed

Without any shame..

The world is in mourning

Shocked! Horrified!

At senseless violence;

Leaving millions petrified..

The loss is tremendous

Of precious human life;

And the fabric of freedom

Has been  slashed with a knife..

In a world that stands divided

The chasm grows wider

Clash of ideology

Is the theme of the hour.

In the heat of emotion

May good sense prevail

May the good in mankind

Never ever fail…..

The Diva Within Me

white sculpture

I wake up, I channel

The diva within me..

New hopes I unravel,

Prepare to travel

On a new day’s journey.

I bathe in contentment,

Hope I spritz on me,

Let go of resentment

Focus on the present,

Leave conflict behind me.

Myself I prepare 

To walk confidently,

Full of dare,

Acutely aware

Of the diva in me. 

Every challenge I conquer

And gain victory,

With honesty and candor

I always surrender

To the diva in me. 

Cee’s Which Way Photo Challenge: 2015 #1

Here are my entries-
IMG_0945                                                     Vancouver, BC, Canadapathways alaska                                               Meandering pathways, AlaskaDSC04296                       Road through the woods, Keene, New Hampshirebermuda beach                                   Along the beach in Hamilton, Bermudabridal passage                Passage for the bridegroom’s party at a wedding, New Delhi, IndiaDSC03829                  Staircase, PA Academy of Fine Arts, Philadelphia, PA