The noise of clutter

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Surrounded by clutter

Too much to sift through

Creating invisible webs

That entangle you..

All the memorabilia

Cherished in the days gone by;

Their significance now lost,

Abandoned, they lie.

Crying out, you moved on..

Now set me free, please do!

And in the process of letting go

You’ll free your spirit too..

Cut ties with your old possessions

And cut your shackles too,

Simplify at every step in your life

Bring forth the energetic you!

Women at the turn of last century


AVioletSeason_Final-667x1024heartRecently I read two books that I found  inspiring. Both these books were randomly picked out by my toddler at the local library and appeared interesting enough to give a try. Incidentally, both were set in the late 1800s-early 1900s. Both had strong, progressive women as protagonists.

The first book, “The Violet Season” is set in upstate New York (near Albany) in 1890s when violet cultivation was the rage. The story is about a smart and industrious woman who realizes she needs to be proactive about what she desires for herself and for her daughter. For someone like me who grew up in India, where very few women in those days were even literate, it was a revelation to read about single women living alone in cities and working. Of course in those days women gave up their jobs once they got married, their occupation thereafter being taking care of the household and family business, much like anywhere else in the world. However, the fact that women could be that liberal in the US over a century ago made me realize how in India, we were almost a century behind them. Even in my mother’s generation, it was hard to imagine a single woman living by herself in an apartment in another city!

The second book is even closer to my heart, as you may judge by the name. This is based on the life of one of the first women physicians in North America, and possibly the first congenital heart disease specialist, Maude Abbot, a Canadian physician. The book describes the struggles of a woman in the latter half of the 19th century in breaking in to a male-dominated field in Canada. There is a passage in the story which describes the disdain of the medical school faculty (obviously male) in allowing female students- they fear that critical patients would not be attended to in time because a female doctor would be more concerned with fixing her bonnet and skirts. The sheer determination and chutzpah of this Canadian woman make her fight insurmountable odds to become a world-renowned congenital heart disease specialist who maintains a large collection of  autopsy specimens of defective hearts. The pathos in the story is how this doctor strives to impress her father who, a physician who had abandoned her and her family after a scandal. She spends a lifetime trying to please her father, who refuses to recognize her when they finally meet.

This second story reads almost like it was set in the current era, except for means of transportation (horse-driven carriages and ships throughout). The doctor lives alone like any spinster would (of course she does not get married, it almost appears that the question never arose in her mind, even though her romantic desires are described).  What was interesting was that the book mentions hundreds of women physicians in Europe, particularly Vienna, in the 1880s. The protagonist also felt that the competence of women was taken for granted in Europe, whereas things were different in North America.

I had to blog about these books as they touched me deeply and reinforced the spirit of women-power.

Have you read books that inspired you (particularly for the women out there)?

The stuff that dreams are made of…

Here’s what my dreams are made of-

1. Exotic places– preferably including mountains, rivers and waterfalls.alaska                                                                  In Alaskalake jenny

                                                    Grand Teton National Park

My love for travel is summed in this one.

2. Colorful, unique outfits- Preferably with western silhouettes crafted in Indian textiles with plenty of detailing (embroidery, bead work, applique, richly woven fabrics etc.)indian textiles1                    https://www.flickr.com/photos/willfrancis/6933630140/spring-2013-trends-indian-inspired-eastern-textiles-fabrics-prints-marchesa-vera-wanghttps://only4fashionistas.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/spring-2013-trends-indian-inspired-eastern-textiles-fabrics-prints-marchesa-vera-wang.jpg

This may not be apparent from my blog, but I absolutely love dressing up. I love flamboyant clothes incorporating the rich textile heritage of India. Of course, I dream of clothes that make me feel beautiful..

3. A book that I can lose myself in- A book with a powerful, moving story, usually with a woman as the protagonist, and usually involving one of the major wars.o-OPEN-BOOK-facebook

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Not a surprise to anyone who knows me…nowadays I love books detailing the immigrant experience.

I initially thought I would come up with a longer list, but these are the three that inhabit my dream world.

What are your dreams made of?

The iconoclast

DSC04114The path was straight and narrow

Instructions loud and clear..

All she had to do was follow

Directions without fear.

Her life, like a roadmap

Already laid out for her

With tried and tested guidelines

To which she had to adhere.

But,

Her spirit was airy and light

Disposed to take a flight;

Falling outside the narrow path,

Thrilling her, but inviting wrath…

Being judged at every step she took,

Disapproved of everywhere she would look

Ignoring the dissenting voices

She stood beside her non-conformist choices.

And then,

Accolades and adulation came her way

Women from distant lands would say

How she had inspired them all

To follow their heart’s true call.

But she was always looking back

At home, for approval from the pack:

Reassurance that the path she chose

Did not mean that the doors were closed…

Never accepted by those close to her

She was treated by them as an outcast

Such was the irony of her life,

The life of an iconoclast.

Weekly Photo Challenge- Shadowed

DSC04189Lincoln Center, New York City

DSC03053Colosseum, Rome, Italy

Mount Washington1View from the top of Mount Washington, New Hampshire

“Je Suis Charlie”- A Dirge

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The pen is mightier than the sword,

Or so they were taught..

Who knew what they penned

Was with peril fraught?

Living in modern times

They had assumed

Freedom of expression

Who knew they were doomed?

They had not a clue

Of men on the prowl

Whose narrow-mindedness

Declared their thought foul..

Extremists they were

In their religion’s name

A heinous act they performed

Without any shame..

The world is in mourning

Shocked! Horrified!

At senseless violence;

Leaving millions petrified..

The loss is tremendous

Of precious human life;

And the fabric of freedom

Has been  slashed with a knife..

In a world that stands divided

The chasm grows wider

Clash of ideology

Is the theme of the hour.

In the heat of emotion

May good sense prevail

May the good in mankind

Never ever fail…..

The Diva Within Me

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I wake up, I channel

The diva within me..

New hopes I unravel,

Prepare to travel

On a new day’s journey.

I bathe in contentment,

Hope I spritz on me,

Let go of resentment

Focus on the present,

Leave conflict behind me.

Myself I prepare 

To walk confidently,

Full of dare,

Acutely aware

Of the diva in me. 

Every challenge I conquer

And gain victory,

With honesty and candor

I always surrender

To the diva in me. 

Cee’s Which Way Photo Challenge: 2015 #1

Here are my entries-
IMG_0945                                                     Vancouver, BC, Canadapathways alaska                                               Meandering pathways, AlaskaDSC04296                       Road through the woods, Keene, New Hampshirebermuda beach                                   Along the beach in Hamilton, Bermudabridal passage                Passage for the bridegroom’s party at a wedding, New Delhi, IndiaDSC03829                  Staircase, PA Academy of Fine Arts, Philadelphia, PA

Five favorites- Verses

I have always loved poetry, and some verses have stuck with me over the years. These are some of my favorites (I have included only the verses that I remember):

1. The Glories of Our Blood and State- James ShirleyDSC03024

The glories of our blood and state
     Are shadows, not substantial things;
There is no armour against Fate;
     Death lays his icy hand on kings:
               Sceptre and Crown
               Must tumble down,
And in the dust be equal made
With the poor crooked scythe and spade.
Love this because it is a great reminder of how victory is transient, no matter what stage of life you are in.
2. Daffodils- William Wordsworthdaffodils
I wandered lonely as a cloud
That floats on high o’er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host, of golden daffodils;
Ten thousand saw I at a glance
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance. 
Growing up in India, I never really saw daffodils, and always wondered what they looked like. Also tried to imagine what ten thousand daffodils would look like…so I love the visual imagery in this poem…
3. Success is counted sweetest- Emily DickinsonDSC03076
Success is counted sweetest
By those who ne’er succeed.
To comprehend a nectar
Requires sorest need.
As he defeated – dying –
On whose forbidden ear
The distant strains of triumph
Burst agonized and clear!
I always remember this poem when in the throes of jealousy and self-pity over something I am never good at, while someone I know really excels at it. Overall I agree that I have experienced success more than failure in my life…
4. She walks in beauty- Lord ByronDSC04120
She walks in beauty, like the night
   Of cloudless climes and starry skies;
And all that’s best of dark and bright
   Meet in her aspect and her eyes;
These lines are just hopelessly romantic and lusciously lovely….the way every woman would like to be described, and the way every man’s lady love would appear…
5. If- Rudyard KiplingDSC04098
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;   
    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;   
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;   
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,   
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
I saved the best for the last, this is the most inspiring poem I have ever read in my life. The first verse about triumph and disaster is mentioned on the walls of Wimbledon, and I aspire to be able to follow it..
The second verse mentioned here is something I wrote in an unsteady hand as I was developing progressive paralysis of all 4 limbs from a rare nervous system disease called “Guillaine-Barre syndrome” at the age of 14 on a poster and had mounted on the wall. My paralysis progressed to where I could no longer write, and then 6 agonizing months of recovery followed during which these lines gave me strength.
So here are my favorite lines. What are some of your favorite verses?

Broken pieces

DSC04219We are all broken pieces 

Trying to assemble themselves again,

Some with edges smoothened by love,

Some with edges jagged by pain.

Carrying in them thoughts half-formed,

Wishes and aspirations, 

Some that perished, some that exist

In suspended animation. 

Hope does try to mold them 

So they fit like a puzzle, jigsaw;

Love does try to glue them together

And bond the edges raw.

We break into pieces 

And then turn whole

Rearranging the pieces

Assuming a new role. 

Ceilings

There is something about artistic ceilings that makes me want to take pictures of them…it’s challenging with a point and shoot camera, and often the results are less than ideal. But the idea of craning my neck and shooting upwards is just too much to resist…hope you like these amateur attempts!
blue mosqueBlue Mosque, Istanbul, Turkiyehagia sofia

Hagia Sofia, Istanbul, Turkiyesanta maria del fiore domeDuomo, Santa Maria del Fiore, Florence, ItalyDSC03105Vatican City ceiling design

DSC03103Vatican City ceiling paintingsDSC03121Vatican City ceiling painted by Raphael

DSC03114Vatican City ceiling art in galleries

DSC03262Gold-encrusted ceiling, Doges Palace, Venice, Italy

DSC03998Ceiling art, Glencarin Museum, Bryn Athyn, Pennsylvania


sheesh mahalCeiling of Sheesh Mahal (glass palace), Jaipur, India

akshardhamCeiling of Hindu Temple, New JerseyDSC04336And the oddball one, this represents Santa’s gift delivery system in the sky-at Yankee Candle Village, Massachusetts