Reinvention

 

DSC05591Reinventing yourself is often talked about,

It is the mantra in vogue, without a doubt

Open your mind and your purse, get a makeover

Live the life that you’ve dreamt of, before it is over

That is what “lifestyle consultants” proclaim

You could be a new person behind the old name..

Unfortunately the methods of reinvention

Seem to be archaic and prone to repetition

Weight loss, change of clothing and hair style

While these help you go forward an extra mile

May make you more outgoing and confident

But getting a new skin does not reinvent

The person that is truly, sincerely you-

Reinventing yourself completely implies

Changing yourself more deeply than you may realize

Challenging and changing your beliefs deep-seated

Radically, completely, or your purpose is defeated

It takes courage to perform an honest assessment

Of your own shortcomings, without resentment

It takes willpower to change your beliefs and actions

While consciously ignoring others’ reactions..

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Reinvention is for yourself, not for an audience

It cannot be done under any false pretense

 

It involves introspection, a difficult journey

Full of surprises, on the road to self-discovery..

So reinvent yourself, by all means do

Emerge from the process happier too!

 

 

 

 

New Year

DSC06161 - CopyAnother year has dawned, it’s the first of January

Eager I am to fill the pages of my diary

It’s a good idea to start on the very first day

My mind draws a blank, there’s nothing new to say

Nothing that sounds original, groundbreaking

Probably a rehash of resolutions I’ve been making

Year after year, to celebrate the first day

Most are forgotten in a week, seldom some stay

Like everyone else, I make changes when motivated

By circumstances, changing yourself on this day is overrated

If everyone could by their new year resolutions abide

The beginning of each year would turn the tide

Every new year, positive changes would be found

Wishful thinking, I know, though the logic is sound.

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Before I sign-off, here’s a warm wish for you

Happy new year, and a lifetime of happiness too!

 

 

 

 

Job satisfaction

To find joy in work is to discover the fountain of youth.

Pearl S. Buck

love job

I have a job, with satisfaction I can say

That takes care of needs and bills to pay

Leaves me enough for careful indulgence

In luxuries of life, that I enjoy with prudence

That should suffice for work satisfaction-

Some may opine; monetary comfort is an attraction..

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I am grateful though in another way

I can hardly separate work from play

At the end of most days I have a sense

Of accomplishment; a renewed reverence

For the unwavering commitment of my team

Whose dedication can any disappointment redeem

 

At work, we derive joy and satisfaction

By basking in the warmth of a job well done

This is something that cannot be

Replaced by the promise of a larger salary

But one thing I know- to attain success

One has to find in work, happiness….

 

 

The story that I need

DSC05949So tell me a story that holds me 

Captive in its brilliant imagery

A story that leaves me spellbound

Whose words drown every other sound

A story that tugs at the strings of my heart

A story of which I can be a part

Tell me a story, will you, my dear

To dispel the dark clouds of fear

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I feel lost, I know I will find

Myself in a story that’s one of a kind

A story that instills hope and inspires

A story that rekindles lost desires

A story from which I can derive

Strength, and rejuvenate and revive

My passion for life in all its splendor

A story to whose wisdom I shall surrender

 

And I shall recount my story in return

Cleanse myself of past errors, from them learn..

 

 

 

 

 

Inadequate

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All of us feel every now and then

Inadequate, imperfect, just rotten

The world sends reminders in myriad ways

Some subtle, some blatant, each of them says

There is a measure you do not stand up to

There is  so much more that you should do..

Social media has the remarkable power

To constantly keep all your grapes sour

So even though self-assured you may be

There are bound to be feelings of inadequacy

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These feelings that haunt us off and on

Have entire industries spawned-

For instance, if women all over were to decide

Their present bodies were objects of pride

Not in need of alteration of any kind

Millions would go bankrupt, you might find

Billions of dollars are spent each year

Based on feelings of inadequacy and fear

Unfortunately, money can never buy

Feelings of self-worth, even if you try

Avoiding the tangled web of comparison

Is something we all need to learn

So that we keep insecurity at bay

As we live our lives from day to day..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The first day of winter

winterAs I woke up my sleepy little boy

He jumped out of bed shouting with joy-

“Today is the first day of winter!” he said

As he jumped up and down, excited, in bed,

And I tried to join in his excitement in vain

 

The cynic in me looked at the dark clouds and rain

Nothing remarkable about this day I could see

Just warmer than usual, I shrugged indifferently..

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All through the day, he remained excited

The first day of winter left him quite delighted

He wanted to read the story of the snow

In honor of the day- he’d read it yesterday though

While I trudged through the day, ordinary as ever

Can’t get excited by the season or weather..

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On second thoughts, why shouldn’t I?

I’m afraid to sound silly, I guess that’s why-

Growing up implies restrictions on behavior

Until restraint becomes a second nature

And we forget to get excited by things inane

Being serious is the way to appear sane…

But seeing my son’s  unbridled excitement

I resolved today to make an amendment

To my rules for self, and try to include

For ordinary things, appreciation and gratitude

So that next time when it is the first day of spring

I am ready to welcome the promises it will bring!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Holiday stress

DSC04336Throngs of people milling about

The stores, shopping, without a doubt

That it is absolutely necessary

To buy that non-functional but pretty accessory

To give as a gift to someone whose name

Appears on their holiday list, it’s part of the game

An unwritten rule that circulates in society

Says exchanging gifts constitutes propriety

So stressed out and frantic, tired souls attempt

To buy “meaningful gifts”, while each dollar spent

Escalates the stress that has been persistent

Casting its ugly shadows over holiday sentiment..

 

Your love for someone has to be tangible-

Gift-wrapped, anything else is unthinkable

Holidays are for spreading warmth and cheer

But all that is lost under the thin veneer

Of lips forced into smiles that demons hide

Of stress, over money and exhaustion, deep inside-

Time to remember-holidays don’t come from the store

Maybe the holidays mean something more…

This holiday season I wish you the best

Hope you put holiday stress to rest!

P.S. The picture here depicts Santa’s gift delivery system for Christmas- at Yankee Candle Village, MA

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Like”

social-media.jpgThere was a time when “like” meant

A look of approval, a personal compliment

And “followers” belonged to people well-known

Leaders, actors, business tycoons and so on..

Entered the web and now you could follow

Millions of websites that could show

Information interesting and useful to you

Posted by someone ordinary too.

 

Social media had its genesis soon after

With an avalanche of facebook, instagram and twitter

Now the web became your canvas to display

Every aspect of your life, to friends far away

Each other’s followers  now you could be

Exchanging exclamations and likes and smileys

You began to “like” everything- good or bad

There’s no dislike option even for news that’s sad..

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Ranting about “likes” and “followers”, let me tell you

The array of platforms on which I look forward to

Appreciative comments, likes and follows everyday-

This blog,  facebook and its friends have their say

Then there is “Research Gate” to flaunt my academic prowess

How can I neglect my professional success?

So it pings me when someone references and reads

An article of mine, satisfying my hidden narcissistic needs.

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Such is the world today, making us obsessed

About the number of likes, follows and friend requests

Firing up the beast of competition within

At least in cyberspace we know how to win!

 

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The very important predicament

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Trapped in the age-old conundrum,

Exasperated, confused and panic-stricken

Pulling out pieces picked at random

I am one of those millions of women

Who stare at their closets each day

Overflowing with clothes and accessories

Before getting dressed, for work or for play

This tops the list of their many worries-

Despite shopping left, right and center

Blowing their budgets on personal adornment

Buying out of boredom, or for pleasure

They all echo a common sentiment-

Why is it that I have nothing to wear?

I just bought some clothes last week!

Can’t find a decent outfit, I swear

Retail therapy is where refuge I seek..

When we say that, we are calculating

The number of people who might have seen

Us in any outfit; it is upsetting

That repeating outfits invites comments mean..

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I am as much a culprit as another

Never knowing what to wear

Maybe I should downsize and declutter

Strip my closets of everything but essentials bare.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The World of Fantasy

DSC04397I thought highly of my skill at parenting

Showing my child reality was wise

I spared him from fantasy,  unrelenting

In my efforts to portray truth before his eyes

So there was no mention of Santa, or elf or a fairy

No presents left under the Christmas tree

Fantasies are futile, reality can be scary

Facing it early,  he would more equipped be

To survive in this world, and success achieve-

This is what I had assumed throughout

With strong conviction I continued to believe

That I was raising a mature individual, no doubt..

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The turning-point came to me one day

When my child picked out a book extraordinary

Despite my aversion to fantasy, I could not say

That “Alice in Wonderland” was forbidden territory

As we turned its pages together, one by one

Amazed was I by my child’s transformation

His imagination ran wild, in every direction

He conjured up stories testing my comprehension.

Enchanted by this tale he made an effort

To read all the words, and sharpened his skills

I then realized, shaken out of my zone of comfort

He had learnt quite a bit in the midst of these thrills-

Seeing his eyes light up with wonder

I realized how myopic my vision had been

So together our duo decided to plunder

Treasures of mythical variety previously unseen

I discovered the joy of losing myself in

A world fabricated out of imagination

And the deeper we continued to delve in

The more it came to me as a revelation-

Instead of teaching my child as I thought

My child was the teacher, and I the taught!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My favorite book

Written in response to the Indispire challenge:

Your favourite book or author. How did it/he/she influence you? Why do you think others should read it/him/her?

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A book that was a compulsive read

One that made my heart bleed

As I followed raw emotions laid bare

Of Mariam and Laila, two maidens fair

“A Thousand Splendid Suns” revealed to me

The Kabul of dreams lost to misery

Two resilient women who shared 

Their husband, their lives, as they cared

Deeply for each other, united by tragic fate

Nurtured a  bond too deep to estimate

One sacrificed her life for her friend

Ending her futile, dismal existence

Liberating them both with one bold stroke-

This is an epic saga that spoke

Directly to me, brought tears to my eyes

As I read about powerful love and sacrifice

Let me share my thoughts with you

Maybe you’d find it remarkable too-

 

A man has penned this story of two strong women

While unrelentingly cruel, and morally  weak  are all men-

I do applaud the author, Khaled Hosseini for

Showing strong women in a country torn by war..

Read the book, I urge, and you shall find

An indelible print left on your mind.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have Facebook, will complain..

media-tation-media-meditation-many-armed-cartoon-yoga-man-sitting-globe-lotus-position-holding-contemporary-electronic-42635392 (1)Increasingly I seem to see

A disturbing trend around me

Of rants and complaints everywhere

Overt, or disguised- beware!

Posted on various web platforms

Sometimes flouting societal norms

A new way of expressing displeasure

Sitting with a computer, at leisure

The slightest annoyance has to be shared

On facebook or twitter, with strangers shared

No doubt there are some folks in cyberspace

Who will sympathize with  your unique case

Making you feel your opinion is precious

In a world of loyalties increasingly capricious

The internet provides anonymity convenient

Towards usual decorum it is more lenient

Thus criticism inappropriate in polite company

Is posted on the web, for the eyes of all and sundry..

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Social media websites were actually designed

Keeping friends and family in mind

To share happy moments with one another

These websites have metamorphosed altogether

For people to push their biased views

“Creating awareness” is the oft-used ruse

I wish people would stop criticizing

Keep negative opinions hidden, without publicizing

For negativity breeds intolerance, I think

It will take time for this idea to sink!