Rumor

News

It started as a statement quite innocuous
A bored mind with nothing worthwhile to discuss
Concocted a story loosely based on
A conversation that had been eavesdropped upon
Assumptions were many, because what was heard
Was not a full conversation, just a smattering of words
Strung together with an imagination fertile
Those words formed a story that brought a smile
To the face of the next person to whom the beans were spilled
It was amusing, and in the listener it instilled
The desire to share this interesting anecdote
So to a close friend, in a text this person wrote
The details got blurry, and the story changed flavor
Still juicy enough for this recipient to savor
You get my drift- this almost became a chain reaction
The original story had been sacrificed on the altar of oblivion
Pretty soon a new story was in circulation
Believed by many to be authentic in this situation
**
And what happened to the people who had been
Subjects of the original conversation, they were last seen
Hiding their faces, unable to comprehend
How they had been misrepresented, how they were condemned
To bear the brunt of a lie that they could not trace
The origin of, but that now occupied all their space..
**
This is the life cycle of a rumor
Embedded in these words is dark humor
A rumor is like a cannon set loose
It does much more than just amuse..

Fernweh (wanderlust)

worls mapI remember quite fondly

My first lesson in geography

When to a map I was introduced

A fierce curiosity it had induced

Within me to identify places new

I wanted to explore those places too

 

Seven continents and oceans five

On the map my dreams came alive

Places with names unpronounceable

I took them all in, glued to my table

Exotic and mysterious they appeared

I might never go there- was what I feared

Unable to realize my dreams of distant travel

Maps of all kinds I continued to unravel

I built my stories around them, as if I had seen

The places to which only my imagination had been..

The greater the obscurity of the place, I must say

The more I dreamt about traveling to it one day.

**

But wishes are wishes, rarely fulfilled

I travel but that yearning has never been filled

To travel to exotic places, as remote as can be

I still study maps, quite longingly

The desire to be footloose is strangely appealing

From time to time I get that restless feeling

Then I study a map and start planning ahead

A vacation, though the concept often stays in my head

Who knows, maybe the next time my post here

Is from the Easter Islands, trembling before the Moai in fear..

Until then I study maps with my five year old

And watch his infectious enthusiasm unfold..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Vacation planning

“God grant me a vacation to make bearable what I cannot change.” (sourced from pinterest)

Exhausted, worn-out in the oppressive heat

I long to leave my workplace and retreat

To some new place, perhaps by the sea

Or in the midst of mountainous scenery

In the lap of nature, away from the crowd

Replacing sirens with seagulls crying loud

I dream of digging my toes in the sand

Or hiking the peaks of a rugged land

I close my eyes and give myself permission

To dream about an idyllic destination..

**

So it is time to plan a vacation

I brace myself for some altercation

Within my family, for easy it is not

To be in agreement over a vacation spot

After an emotionally charged discussion

And some tears, we arrive at a decision

Regarding the destination, next to appear

Are travel arrangements, and  I fear

The prices of flights and accommodation

Upwardly mobile-forever exceeding my estimation

Choices are few- either we can relax the budget

Or choose the cheapest option, and forgo comfort

Depending on our moods that day, we might decide

Either way, and later regret the miserable plane ride

Now comes the part where opinions vary

The most between us, our interests contrary

To each other, so finding common ground

To plan an itinerary takes patience profound

Sightseeing is expensive but how can I miss

 

Touring the exact spot where in perfect bliss

Ms. (co-worker) appeared in her facebook profile

I want a selfie there with a dreamy smile..

Of course such desires I do not share

With my husband, trying to convince him I care

About the significance of the place, therefore

We should spend time and money to explore

This place, but he has ideas of his own to include

Finally after days, and multiple swings of mood

The itinerary is complete, as time draws near

It is the daunting task of packing I fear

This is my job alone, one I cannot avoid

Of leaving things essential I am always paranoid

Somehow everything is completed, vacation commences

I am so exhausted I fear I might lose my senses

 

Gradually the world of work recedes from view

And I finally start recharging my batteries too!

 

 

 

How she gained freedom

“If society fits you comfortably enough, you call it freedom.”- Robert Frost

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On the occasion of Indian Independence Day (August 15th), here is a version of freedom for a typical Indian woman.

In a staunchly patriarchal society

Her actions were always governed by propriety

She had freedom to choose- or so she was explained

As long as it within narrow confines remained-

Yes she could play-but the games had to be

Appropriate for a girl, not for mixed company

She could choose her outfits, but they had to be

In color and form, conforming to standards of modesty

Yes she was educated, yet was expected to state 

Her opinions rarely, never indulge in a debate

With elders and men of all ages, for a girl was meant

To be seen, not heard, in the background blend

Yes she could choose her life partner, but he had to be

From a certain kind of family, from the same community

The irony of this situation would be apparent when I say

She was envied by her friends for her freedom, by the way…

**

She also from a very young age learnt

To respect these boundaries, never to be burnt

For life was easier when the rules she obeyed

If there was a charade, along she played

This came very handy as a daughter-in-law

Where they could not find a major flaw..

**

She lived her life in a manner monotonous

Comfortable, well-adjusted, her life free of fuss

But it was lackluster, and she did crave

For some excitement- she longed to be brave

And do something different, break the norm

When she did dare, she felt her image transform

From a woman perceived as subservient

To someone with a mind of her own, self-sufficient

She faced some criticism, but to her surprise

She saw new respect in her family and friends’ eyes

She galvanized the other women around her

To break free from their molds, venture further

They realized that the arbitrary rules they had perceived

As dogmatic were archaic, and change was received

With far less resistance than they had feared

Freedom could be expanded, it so appeared

**

At the end of the day, here’s what I would say-

You just have to live life your own way

Waiting for others’ approval is futile

It is your journey, you go the extra mile!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Food glorious food

(This poem strictly reflects my opinion on food fads with no intent to criticize individual food preferences.)

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I notice there is a growing trend
Among my acquaintances and friends
Of believing in food fads that are mushrooming
Leading to crazy new diets, each one assuming
That adding or subtracting one ingredient
Can solve all your problems, irrespective of their extent
Help you lose weight (most important, isn’t it?)
Miraculously make you active and fit
Improve your sleep, concentration and endurance
I try hard to believe all of this,but it does not make sense
As to why expensive exotic ingredients are required
To make life better, to get results desired

**

I thought the origin of civilization
Can be traced to the beginning of cultivation
And bread made from wheat sustained generations
Of humans across the globe, then why the condemnation
Of wheat- being gluten-free is the new fad
Substitute with costly ingredients, because wheat is so bad
What would we grow if wheat disappeared
To feed billions- to me the scenario is weird
Another food fad that I find difficult to comprehend
Is why kale is a super food all alone, while a blend
Of mixed vegetables, cooked and raw, in every hue
Should lack the same properties? (They are cheaper too)
Thus we have kale chips (highly processed, mind you)
Being considered healthy snacks, that is just not true
Or the new trend of juicing that I perceive
As far too hyped up; I cannot believe
That something requiring an appliance sophisticated
Can be a panacea- its benefits must be overrated
I will not even talk about low-carb diets here
With their range of expensive products- be aware
That the low carb heaven they promise is loaded
With chemicals that might be junk once decoded

**

Of course these statements that appear extreme
Are my biased views, to others it might seem
That these diets offer benefits unique
They might offer health solutions that they seek
My final two cents on this topic are-
How many people can take these diets far
And stick to them, day after day, year after year
The number appears to be quite limited, I fear
To eat natural foods, sensibly and in moderation
Would be the best strategy, in my humble opinion.

My life in books

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This one will give you a glimpse into the world

Of yours truly, from the time she was a little girl

The passion which was at the age of five ignited

Was in the form of printed words that left her excited-

I am going to tell you how books made an entrance

At different stages of my life, became my best friends-

Starting from a cartoon strip in a news periodical

Foraying into a book that took me on a journey magical

Through the solar system and the stars, teaching me

About the universe vast; I still recall quite gleefully

The colorful illustrations and facts fascinating-

I’ ve yet to find a book that captivating…

 

As I grew older, I thrived on a diet steady

Of Secret Seven and Nancy Drew, always ready

To solve difficult mysteries, mostly imaginary

Thinking I’d acquired skills extraordinary

Interspersed were folk-tales from lands far away

Making me yearn to travel to those places some day..

Then there were books that left an impression

Indelible, like the one translated from Russian

About a young boy and his doppelganger electronic

I longed for a friend (robot) with senses supersonic…

 

How can I forget friendship that sprouted spontaneously,

Over shared love for Agatha Christie’s outstanding mysteries

Over the next three years, my friend and I scoured the library

For any evidence of Dame Christie’s prowess literary

Read and discussed every single book ever written

By her, you can see the extent to which we were smitten..

 

Through the tumultuous years of adolescence

Powerful love stories had a constant presence

In my life- thus Bronte sisters and Jane Austen

Were integral parts of my personal heaven

I read works of literature, that were for me

Finest instances of human art and ingenuity

From Hugo and Hardy to Maugham and Tolstoy

Reading classics gave me unparalleled joy

 

These days I find myself gravitating

Towards stories of immigrants; captivating

As they are, in those pages I try to find

Succour for my lonely heart and mind

Get lost in powerful stories that reflect

How I feel today, they are perfect

For lightening the burden carried by me

As an immigrant who once crossed the sea

 

Thus Jhumpa Lahiri, Khaled Hosseini are a part

Of my bookshelves, and of my heart..

 

As I go through life, the genres might shift

But reading books gives me that indescribable lift

 

That always keeps me thirsting for more 

There are always books for me to devour!

(Image source: www.notonthehighstreet.com)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Time management

Time-Management1Time management seems to be a skill
That I have not learnt, probably never will
Twenty-four hours in a day are not enough
To do everything, deal with all the stuff
That is part of my life as a mother and a professional
A schedule I try to follow, but the results are dismal
Every task on my list takes longer than I anticipate
And at the end of the day I am running late
I try to make up by compromising on precious sleep
Eventually for sleep debt I pay a price steep
As inefficiency creeps in throughout the week
The prospect of time management appears more bleak..
**
Taking a look at my schedule with a critical eye
There were a few things I did identify
My plan for each day was far too ambitious
Leaving no space for things to be ambiguous
I needed to shave off a few tasks on my plate
So I could accommodate the rest even when running late
Next I took stock of the amount of time spent
In looking through social media feeds of my friends
It was a LOT, even though my estimation was conservative
Draining time in cyberspace, I had little time to live
Out my life in the real world, do things that were required
Suddenly to delete my Facebook account I was inspired
(Thinking it through, I did not act on this impulse,
But over time, to social media I’ve become somewhat averse)
Next I realized that I was making futile attempts to
Multi-task, making it fairly impossible to do
Even one task efficiently, thus running behind-
I had to get the superwoman mentality out of my mind
**
Now that I have been able to identify
All these lacunae, let’s see if I can apply
These solutions that are simple enough, I think….
Well…while writing this verse time flew by in a blink
So I need to rush again pretty much the same way
As I’ve been doing; hoping there will be a day
When I am somewhat better at time management
I shall post my success here, in that event…

Perspective

image.jpegIn a lighthearted discussion on plans for the weekend
The conversation took a turn when dismissively my friend
Said, “Oh, you are rich, you might not care”
We left it at that, from her point of view it was fair
But my mind wandered to all those times I had heard
“Oh you are (rich/ smart/ lucky/ successful)” or some such word
Life would be easy for me, was the insinuation
I admit I disliked these words for their implication
With my eyes constantly looking upwards at targets higher
I did not associate those adjectives with me or my desire
I constantly felt I had to complete an arduous journey
Before I could let those words describe me
I looked at people who had achieved much, much more
Those exalted skies were where I wanted to soar…
**
But something about this discussion instilled in me
For the first time, a desire to assess objectively
Whether what I had achieved was with expectation commensurate
What was my contribution and what was attributable to fate
In counting my blessings, I realized one thing
I had some achievements that hard work and luck did bring
When others pointed out all those things, it was an expression
Of appreciation for the blessings that I had for granted taken
I felt worse-off than I was because constantly
I compared myself to those perceived more successful than me
This insight allowed me to change my perspective
Being grateful for my blessings is a better way to live!

Parenting lessons from the Titanic

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Der Untergang der Titanic

Reading the story of the Titanic with my son

Was for both of us a brand new lesson

It was a book written for a preschooler

With simple sentences and many pictures

Not different from his other books in that sense

But it was a story viewed through a very different lens

For my five year old, an introduction it represented

To tragedy, death, misfortune- everything I had prevented

Him from learning about so far, considering his young age

While reading his disappointment grew with each page

As he realized what collision with an iceberg meant 

He had tears in his eyes when down the ship went

When he realized that little girls and boys had to be

Separated from their fathers, who drowned in the sea

He closed the book and in a sad voice said to me

I hate this story, I hate the iceberg in the sea

That made the ship sink and people die

Why did this bad thing happen, mom, tell me why?

I tried to tell him how bad things sometimes happen

So we learn from our mistakes, don’t repeat them again

Of course he is too young to appreciate the dark irony

Of the unsinkable ship sinking on its maiden journey

**

That set me thinking, when is it appropriate

To introduce children to tragedy, when to state

Unpalatable facts as they are, how to explain

Tragic events-historic and current, in language plain

In today’s world our children are exposed

Through various media, to a significant dose

Of news- at times disturbing and  violent

That we cannot always screen as parents

Talking to a five year old about these things 

Is not easy, a lot of questions it brings

Forth from the child, for which there are

No perfectly satisfactory answers, by far

I thought this book was the perfect segway

To discussing more serious topics every day

**

I realized my son was growing up fast

His innocence was not going to last

This book marked an important transition

From fantasy to real life, this was a graduation. 

(Image source: wikipedia)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When she owned the moment

“I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life’s a bitch. You’ve got to go out and kick ass.” – Maya Angelouleadership-insight-from-phenomenal-women-leaders

In a society sharply polarized

A distinct bias she always recognized

A woman of color, pretty and petite

It would have been a considerable feat

To be taken seriously by leadership senior

To be considered a valuable member

Of the team, with a mind of her own

She was quite used to having her ideas blown

Off as frivolous; a pretty young thing in a dress

Was not their idea of a brain that could impress..

**

Fueled by a ruthless ambition to succeed, initially she tried

To impress with quiet industry, but her efforts were denied

The kind of attention that she had hoped and craved for

She was granted small favors but in the grand scheme ignored

She might be embarrassed to admit today that she did try

To exude feminine charm, in hopes of climbing high

But this was a slippery ladder to ascend, she realized astutely

For it was accompanied by a decline in self-respect acutely

During all her struggles, one thing was maintained

Her capacity to observe and learn she retained

So she paid extra attention to successful men, 

And their winning strategies, not knowing when

She might get a chance to display her prowess

She knew one day, somehow, she would taste success

**

One day while brainstorming, the team reached a deadlock

She had a novel idea, but first faced  a mental block

Not used to expressing her opinions out loud

She hesitated, heart racing, mind full of doubt

Just as the meeting was about to be adjourned

Her confidence in herself suddenly returned

She realized this was the moment she had waited

For all these years, she was perfectly situated

To put forth her thoughts when others had none

She blurted out, “Wait a minute, everyone!”

Then in a voice loud and clear, proceeded to outline

To a stunned audience, the plan in her mind

As she concluded the whispers gave way

To murmurs of assent, she heard her boss say

That her idea was in its simplicity just elegant

He had to admit her reasoning was brilliant

Her eyes sparkled, her confidence shone

This was the moment that she did fully own.

**

She had found her voice and from that day

She found more respect coming her way

Confidence was what she had lacked before

Once she found it, success came knocking at her door!

(Image courtesy: http://www.halogensoftware.com)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Inner Voice

“Don’t shush your inner voice. It is who you are.”DSC05390There is the little voice that is housed

Inside us, quiet as a church mouse

That tries its best, our guardian angel to be

Tries to protect us from  walking into calamity

Holding us back when we are being reckless

Cheering us on when we are feckless

This voice is so quiet, we often can’t register

It above the cacophony of constant chatter

That envelops us most of the time, most days

Much louder, therefore we disregard what this voice says

I think this is a tragic situation for mankind

Where other’s opinions rule our minds..

**

I was no exception, and did not pay heed

To my inner voice, in times of need

Was quick to accept what I was told

Growing up in a paternalistic society’s fold

Disregarded my instinct on many occasions

Only to realize that others’ opinions 

Did not work for me,  better it would have been

Had I the wisdom of hearing my inner voice seen

 

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I started paying attention when I realized

My sixth sense- this voice, gave counsel wise

When I had complex patients to treat

My innate sense gave me insight indeed

When things seemed straightforward enough

But this voice nagged me to reassess my stuff

To take a second look, valuable clues I would find

That changed everything, and I would remind

Myself to be more cognizant of my voice

That would steer me towards the right choice

**

Many voices shall continue to invade

Our hearing fields, we have to wade

Through the noise to reach inside

Wherein lies wisdom to tackle this world wide. 

 

 

 

 

 

A tale of strength

imageAll seemed lost, her world desolate
Benumbed, she watched, as her fate
Twisted in a downward spiral
Into the abyss of misery; almost surreal
Was the way her life’s foundations were shaken
Every shred of normalcy had from her been taken
Leaving her stuck in a state of limbo
No silver lining in sight, no place to go
In a state of shock she spent several days
The world around her clouded in a haze…
So wrapped was she in her grief she had not realized
This was a disaster where everyone around her had died…

She was shaken out of her shell-shocked stupor
By a faint cry from somewhere around her
Louder it grew, evolving into a lusty wail
Of an infant; she forced herself up to follow the trail
A baby she found; miraculously unharmed
Lying on the rubble, his face red and warm
She picked him up, he looked up at her
In eager anticipation for someone to douse his hunger

She was brought back to reality from listlessness
Self-preservation emerged from some deep recess
She knew the safety of the infant she had to ensure
She had to gather all strength to endure
The ravages of fate in the wake of this disaster
With a single aim in mind- to be the protector
Of this innocent life; she had to venture out
To seek help, she knew that without a doubt
She walked for miles with the hungry infant
Fearing he would collapse at any instant
Until she met some rescuers who had by then
Given up hopes of finding live men or women
At the verge of physical exhaustion were the duo
Her determination to keep the child safe had made her go
Thus far, only to realize that fate had taken away
Similarly, her family and the child’s parents that day
As she realized this, she had an epiphany
Making her decide to adopt that child legally
She had not wanted children, she thought ruefully
In her previous life, but now she was attached to this baby truthfully

She started her life from scratch, bent, not broken
Facing flashbacks of the disaster, recurring demons
What gave her strength was her beautiful boy
Raising him brought to her infinitesimal joy
She brought him up as a fine young lad
Never made excuses for the tragedy that she had
Survived, never repeated her story of resilience
Until in their lives I made an appearance
When she welcomed me in her fold as a daughter-in-law
She told me her unembellished story, leaving me in awe
I have for her strength respect immense
She is a hero when seen from my lens!